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Assalmualikum mufti saheb, main bangalore, india ka rehnawala hoon. Mai filwaqat bahut he pareshan hoon, inshaallah allah ke baad aap ke upar pura bharosa hai ki meri muskil hul hogi. Shadi se pehle mere aur meri biwi ke 4 saal talukhaat they, Meri biwi ne mujhe pasand kiya tha aur shadi ki baat bhi meri biwi ne mujhse ki. mai shaadi ka faisla lene se pehle mai kuch shart rakhe ki meri maa 22 saal se bimar hai aur use ek gilaas paani bhi lene taklef hai aur aap ko uski kidmat karni padegi. Meri biwi ne badi aasani ke saat kha ki zarror karungi. is 4 saal darmiyan main uske ghar kaee martaba aata jaata tha is baat ko meri saas ko bhi patatha. Mai aur meri bewi beinteha mohabbat karne lage aur mai use bahut chahane laga.Meri sasural waloon ne shaadi ke liye zoor diya. Shadi se pehle mere aur meri biwi ke kuch galat kaam nahi hua. Allah ke marzi ke saath hamari shaadi huei. Shaadi ke kuch din baad hee mere aur mere biwi ke befuzul jhagde hone lage. Lekin hum dono samjhota karne lage. Lekin meri biwi ko mere ghar rehna pasand nahi, kabhi bhi unke ammi use phone pe call karte hai aur bulalete hai, agar mai mana karron to mere saath ladh ne laghte hai. Kehte hai ki mujhe bhejna hi hoga . Allah ki marzi se meri biwi pregnant hui. Aur jab se pregnant hue meri biwi mere sasural mein hi hain.Wo mere maa baap ki kidmat karne se mana kari aur mere saath rehne si bhi. Kehti hai mai mere maa baap ke ghar khush hoon. Aur uske maa baap bhi use kuch nahi kehte aur kehte hai ki hamari beti hamara ghar kush hai to aap ko kya problem hai. Meri shaadi hue 14 mahine hi hue, lekin in 14 mehinoo mai meri biwi mere saath 4 din, 10 din, 15 din kar ke mere saath sirf 2 ya 3 mehine he mere saath hai, Aisa hai ki husband ka ghar sasural aur useke maa ka ghar husband ka. Jab wo 6th month pregnant thi wo boli mai abb mere maa ke ghar jaarahi hoon aur wapus delivery ke 40 din baad hi laut aaongi. Se sun kar na mai kush tha na mere maaa baap. Meri maa ko bahut ghussa aya aur meri biwi ko gaali dene lagi. Legin meri biwi nahi suni aur mai use lekar uske ghar chod aaya. Ek mahina nai mai uske ghar gaya nai hi phone kiya, nahi meri biwi ne mujhe call kiya. Ek mahine ke baad jab mai wapus gaya to wo aane se mana kardi. mai naraz ho kar ghar wapus aagaya. Phir ek din mai uske ghar gaya to wo aur uski maa ghar ka darwaza babdh karliya. mai chillane laga ki darwaza kholo, tab meri biwi ne mujhe kaha ki kisne tumhe bulaya jao yaha se. mai phir naraz, dil dukha ke mera wapus aagaya. Phir mai ek din use milne gaya ye sooch ke ki ye meri biwi hai mai use mohabbat karta hoon. Lekin uske baap ne mujhe maarne aaye aur kehne lage ki ghar se nikal jao. Na hi meri biwi boli ke tum to muje milne aaye hoo.Uske baap ne kaha ki meri beti tumhare saath kush nahi hai mujhe tumhare ghar waloon se baath karni hai. Maine kaha ki theek hai. lekin wo nai aaye. Mai aur mere paapa kai martaba une bulaye baat karne keliye. Likin mere sasur taal te rahe aur ek din kaha ki tumhare masjid mai ek arzee hai ja ke dekh lo. Hum dekhe to wo khule ki arzee thi.Mai aur mere maa baap pareshaan hogae. Phir hum log masjid ki commitee pe gaye to wo kehte hai ki use khula khubul na hi hoga.Meri beti usse khush nai hai aur na hee uske maa baap se. Aur abb ye mujhe bahut force kar raha hai ki mai delivery se pehle khula khubul loon. 10-15 din mein uski delivery hai lekin mere sasur kehte hai ki mai usse se pehle accept karloon. Aur kehte hai ki delivery ke 2 din baad apna baccha lelo. Aur kehte hai ki meri biwi se baat bhi nai karne dega. Mere masjid commitee waloon ne kaha ki ye galat baat hai use uske biwi se milne do. lekin wo nahi maaan raha. Mai meri biwi se bahut mohabbat karta hoon aur jeena chahata hoon. Aur abb to baacha bhi aane wala hai 10-15 din mein. MAi abb kya karoon? Mere biwi ka phone bhi OFF hai, Khule ke arzee pe mere biwi ke dastakhat bhi hai.Mai use chod na nai chahata, mai uske saath zindagi karna chahata hoon. Wo ek nahi do zindagi barbaad kar na chahte hai mai aur mera baccha. Wo mujh se meri biwi alag karna chahate hai aur bacche se apni maa. Mujhe kuch samaj nahi aaraha hai, theek se khana nai kha pa raha hoon, na theek se soo pa raha hoon, mai pagal ho raha hoon. Kya mai khule ko reject karsakta hoon? Kya wo khula le sakte hai? Mai meri biwi ko baat karsakta hoon? Kya wo chote chote problems pe khula le sakte hai. Allah behtar jaanta hai ki mai uske khane, kapde, shopping, ghumna, sab khayal rakha hai. Kya shariyat is khule ko maan sakte hai? kya mai mere baghair wo khula lesakte hai? ye kyon mujhe force kar rahe hai deleviry se pehle? Mai jaanta hoon ki mujhe dusri biwi mil sakti hai lekin mai isse bahut mohabbat karta hoon aur khoona nai chahata. Muhje aap bataeye ki mai kya karron? Mai aur mere maa baap bahut hi pareshan hai. Aur mere bacche ka bhi sawal hai. inn taamaam cheez ko rakte hue mujhe aap batao ki mai kya karron. Jald se jald please mujhe batao. Mere paas waqt bahut kam hai. Jazakallah.

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